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When is it time to say good-bye?
 In the beginning, we have a puppy or kitten. The giggles, laughing and playing that is done at this stage is awesome. We can shout let’s go and our puppy runs to the car. "Here kitty, kitty" brings a purring bundle of fur running for a daily treat. At night they may snuggle in, sharing the warmth of their body with you. Life is good.
 During the middle years, our pet may become more sedate. They like lying down at our feet or in our lap, content to be with us. They have no remote control issues, they just want to share our space and feel our warmth. They are still excited to go bye-bye. They may love to play. They definitely enjoy their treats. We may have changed their diet due to weight gain because we love feeding them treats. Our pet may start to get up slower, walk slower, and have less interest in what they used to enjoy.
 At 11 for dogs and 14 for cats our pet has lived approximately 60-70 human years. They begin to experience the full aging process. We may notice they really hate being outside in the heat, struggle to stay warm, seem to sleep all the time, their hair coat may not be as bright and shiny and their appetite may not be as good. Our pet may not see or hear as well as they used to. They may not remember how we potty trained them and make mistakes. We may get frustrated because there is extra care and cost of care involved. We may find ourselves thinking “When will I know it is time to say good-bye?”
Contrary to what people think, very few pets die from old age. As pets age they are more prone to illness. Just as in humans, if these diseases are not prevented or treated your pet may suffer. The unconditional love a pet displays everyday is enormous. They can be in pain and suffering and will still attempt to wag their tail when they recognize your voice. When it is time, it is hard for us to say good-bye.
Remember, your pet is living in the moment with no specific events such as weddings, birthdays, or anniversaries affecting their need to live a longer life. Their moment is you. That moment is on a daily basis with no future plans that drive them to hang on for just one more day.
Allowing our pets to suffer because of age, disease, or lack of care is inhumane. Unfortunately this is not uncommon because humans are afraid to experience the loss of a pet. Many times we delay making decisions because of our own discomfort and loss. When we start to question whether it is time to let go, we already may know the answer. We just need a little help reaching an appropriate decision. If you need assistance in making any decisions regarding your pet’s health, please make an appointment to discuss your pet’s health care and quality of life concerns with one of our doctors. We will treat you and your pet with kindness and dignity when you decide to make this final decision. Our doctors and employees at Caring Hearts Animal Clinic have had to say good-bye to beloved pets. They will understand and share your sorrow. If we can help you in your time of need, call us at 480-545-8921.
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